Foreplay: a sexual activity that precedes intercourse(Penetration)
On behalf of the ladies; the ones that are shy to tell their partner what they want, the ones that don’t even know what it is they want-
maybe because they have never tasted the real thing, never been with someone that knows the real thing
(fairly used virgins) or they just never paid attention.
We all agree that sex can be sweet- very sweet! Unfortunately, some guys have changed this statement to a negative in the mind of some ladies. – those guys that just “want to do their own”, and hence, spoil plans for us the future potential partners. (Just in case you plan to have multiple partners, I advise you use Fiesta Premium condoms).
Before I go deep into the matter, let me drop one formula I came up with;
Good Sex = Foreplay + Penetration.
T(P) = time spent on penetration
T(F) = time spent on Foreplay
Equation: 2( T(P) )+1 = T(F)
Find the total time used for sex; Given your average man cums after 3minutes of penetration,
Where; P= 3, F = 2(3)+1 = 7
A man that cums after 3 minutes, is expected to foreplay for 7 minutes. Totaling the period of sex to 10 Minutes.
So now, what’s the magic?
The major keys to a great foreplay are;
- Ask her what she wants! (Ladies please, learn to be vocal too)
- Pay Attention! (Very
You could be doing a good job or not – but unless she tells you, you won’t really know, because all women are different, hence, different strokes for different folks. Nonetheless, if you are attentive enough, you would be able to read the signs she gives as you do your thing.
Regardless of your existing skills; Whether you’re still figuring out what to do to her body, or to improve on your existing skills, I am here for you bruh!
So let’s start…
Upper Body: Kissing [ “For if the foundation is destroyed; what can the righteous do?” ]
Mid Body: Breast, Nipple, Belly-Button
While still kissing the neck and licking the ears, let your hands not be idle;
- As you are caressing the breast, softly pinch and rub the nipples at intervals.
- Get her back to the bed, with her arms over her head in an “under arrest” position.
- Slowly kiss her chest down to her belly button (Use your tongue to tickle the bellybutton when you get to it)
Keep doing all that, till her breathing gets intense and her nipples get hard enough;
- Once you are done teasing, grab the nipple area with your mouth, like a baby, suck softly, if possible remove your teeth and use your gum – but yeah, once in a while, use your teeth to gently bite the nipple.
So for the boobs; its a lick- suck – lick-suck. All at a steady pace.
Down Town: Clitoral Stimulation
Unlike the upper body stimulation; the lower body is a university on its own. You need patience and skills to conquer it. – hence, I would be talking about “The good guy’s guide to clitoral stimulation” on a seperate post
In case you don’t know where the clitoris is located; it is just at the top of the vulva, just under the spot where the inner labia meet. (Find it before the next post)